Eleven Steps
A guided step-by-step inner Spiritual journey, The Total Wellness Life Transformation Program
Self-awareness
The Eleven Sequential and Integrated Steps for Attaining Inner Goodness and Total Wellness
Step 1: Being aware of your feelings
Being aware of your feelings (before you say or do anything). Without being aware of your feelings, you automatically react emotionally in a FIGHT or FLIGHT mode; and, emotionally react to, and act upon messages from your negative inner voice.
Step 2: Positive Inner Voice
Connecting with your inner Self — your positive inner voice.
Step 3: Go with Flow
Flow with it / Face it (appropriately dealing with your feelings).
Step 4: Meditation and Contemplation
Connecting with the Spirit within.
- Meditation / Contemplation (Step 4¹)
- Five Spiritual Gifts and Messages of Jesus (authentic, spiritual messages – Step 4²)
- Gil’s Love-centered Meeting House
Self-development
Step 5: Character Traits
Healthy and unhealthy character traits
Step 6: ValueSkills
Common values that can be taught as skills.
Step 7: Self Affirmations
A blueprint for the future YOU
Step 8: Self-discovery activities
Joyful,life-enhancing emotionally healthy activities:
- Sense of Competency
- Board of Directors
- Life Purposes
- Travel through Life
- Life Appreciations
- Life Direction
- Passion Perks
- Something Special
- Life Adventures
Step 9: Inner Goodness
Acquiring a Tapestry of Inner Goodness
- Our perceptions become clearer and more accurate.
- You are in the process of becoming the best you can be.
- Foundation for your inner Self – for your center of strength.
- You celebrate life and let go of people’s negative behaviors you cannot change.
- You see life as a miracle, your relationships blossom, and goodness radiates for all to see.
Step 10: Physical Wellness
Attaining Physical Wellness
- You search for, and act upon the basics of physical wellness (The Physical Wellness Checklist).
- You engage in both conventional and integrative medical practices in search of prevention and cure.
Step 11: Social Wellness
A Total Wellness
- You Communicate with Calmness and Dignity.
- Your interpersonal relationships blossom.
- Love, Belonging, and Intimacy in your life are enhanced.
- Your inner Journey to the Heart is realized.
- Your new emerging inner Self is shared with others.
Step 5: Character Traits
Healthy and unhealthy character traits
Step 6: ValueSkills
Common values that can be taught as skills.
Step 7: Self Affirmations
A blueprint for the future YOU
Step 8:
Self-discovery activities
Joyful, life-enhancing emotionally healthy activities:
- Sense of Competency
- Board of Directors
- Life Purposes
- Travel through Life
- Life Appreciations
- Life Direction
- Passion Perks
- Something Special
- Life Adventures
Step 9: Inner Goodness
Acquiring a Tapestry of Inner Goodness
- Our perceptions become clearer and more accurate.
- You are in the process of becoming the best you can be.
- Foundation for your inner Self – for your center of strength.
- You celebrate life and let go of people’s negative behaviors you cannot change.
- You see life as a miracle, your relationships blossom, and goodness radiates for all to see.
Step 10: Physical Wellness
Attaining Physical Wellness
- You search for, and act upon the basics of physical wellness (The Physical Wellness Checklist).
- You engage in both conventional and integrative medical practices in search of prevention and cure.
Step 11: Social Wellness
A Total Wellness
- You Communicate with Calmness and Dignity.
- Your interpersonal relationships blossom.
- Love, Belonging, and Intimacy in your life are enhanced.
- Your inner Journey to the Heart is realized.
- Your new emerging inner Self is shared with others.